Valentines Day can stir up longings for romance. Some feel that if only they found that special someone then they would be content.

Marriage is a wonderful gift from God, or it can be a terrible trial. When we started counseling couples I was shocked to discover how many miserable marriages there are in the church. So for those not yet married and desiring to find the right one, let’s look at some guideposts that lead to better marital choices. (Those married may enjoy the link under resources at the end.)

I have adopted the excerpt below from Little Women, Big God. The principles apply to men and women.

Finding the Right One

Barbara Nicolosi said her mother continually gave her the following reasons not to get married: “(1) Because you are bored; (2) Because you want to get out of the house; (3) Because you think you can save him; (4) Because you are curious about sex; (5) Because you are pregnant.”*  Here are five keys to choosing a great mate.Continue Reading