IMG_3439 - Version 2“Ask and it will be given to you.” Matt. 7:7

My female standard poodle asked for a rawhide chew. Actually she demanded one. Cosette is quite persistent when she wants a chew. I told her to wait. She waited for two minutes. Then she pawed and gnawed at the container again.

Max, the male, came in and saw her finishing her chew. Instead of asking me for a chew, he whimpered at her. From the next room, I said, “Ask me, not Cosette.”

My words spoke to me. I wonder how often I’ve whined hoping others would supply what only God can provide. What would happen if I asked God for those things instead of throwing out hints to others?

Jesus offers an invitation with an astounding promise:

“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.” Matt. 7:7-8


What could be simpler than to ask? What do you long for? What are your worried about? Have you asked God for it or about it? I’ve often experienced immediate relief when I’ve simply asked.


If you’re like me, a nagging question darkens bright hope. Is it really that simple? Haven’t I prayed for things I didn’t receive? Good things, unselfish prayers. So what does Jesus mean, “everyone who asks receives”?

Jesus relates our heavenly Father’s care with that of a human father.

“Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? 10 Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? 11 If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!” Matt. 7:9-11IMG_3421 - Version 2

There are exceptions, but most daddies want good things for their children. They are also better judges than their children on whether something is beneficial or harmful. They know some temporary pleasures cause permanent pain.

Can you think of some things you would not allow your child, no matter how much he begged?

When our son Brant was four, he believed he could leap off of tall buildings. My “no” was actually a “yes” to Brant’s deeper—but unconscious—desire to live a happy, active life. Our children can’t see the consequences of their requests. But we can. So can God.

Some no’s mean not now. A year feels like a lifetime to a six-year-old. A lifetime feels like an eternity to us. God wants our long-term happiness, and He knows how to provide it.

When you’ve asked and there seems to be no answer, ask for understanding. Could the answer to this request keep me from receiving my deepest desires? Or is this something for which, like Cosette, I need to keep asking?

Sometimes, I need God to help me identify my deepest longings. The bread I crave now may dull my appetite for His heavenly feast.

Ask and it will be given to you—an astonishing promise for a simple request.

Question: What are you asking God for? Click here to comment.


Debbie Wilson

Debbie W. Wilson

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  1. pat

    Debbie your letter today was literally an answer to my asking God for something. It was a two fold answer. Thanks for such a great insightful lesson. Love, Pat

    • Debbie Wilson

      Pat, thanks for sharing. I love to hear how God is at work.

  2. Darlene L. Turner

    Thanks for your post, Debbie! You’re so right. We need to ask God. It’s the waiting that’s hard, isn’t it? I get so impatient!! I appreciate your timely lesson. Thanks.

    • Debbie Wilson

      Darlene, Impatience is my middle name. Maybe that is one of the reasons I sometimes need the wait! Great to hear from you.

  3. Ann

    Debbie – I needed to hear this message this morning – perfect Word for me. Thank you!

  4. Martha

    Thankyou Debbie … You and Larry are such a blessing . My prayer today is for my children and grandchildren to have a hunger and thirst for The Lord , and my Emma , Jacob , and Jordan to come to know The Lord at a early age. Thankyou for the work you do!

    • Debbie Wilson

      Amen to your prayer, Martha!

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