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Big Hurt, Bigger God

Finding Freedom through Biblical Forgiveness

What if God’s hardest command is your pathway to healing — and the only way forward?

When your heart is shattered, how do you break free and move forward? Forgiveness is often the first step toward healing — yet it can feel unfair… even impossible. Confusion and unanswered questions keep you stuck.

  • How do you forgive the unforgivable?
  • Why doesn’t forgiving erase the pain?
  • Do I have to trust the one who hurt me?
  • Does forgiveness minimize the wrong done?

Big Hurt, Bigger God introduces the FREEDOM acronym—a biblical pathway to forgiveness that helps you release deep wounds and move safely through your deepest pain.

If you carry a wound that won’t heal or wrestle to forgive someone who hurt you deeply, Big Hurt, Bigger God offers a safe path forward — biblical truth wrapped in compassion.

Through Scripture, real-life stories, and practical wisdom, you’ll discover how to:

  • Break free from the grip of bitterness
    • Release the pain without excusing the wrong
    • Set wise boundaries while maintaining a forgiving heart

God’s grace is bigger than your pain, and His freedom may be closer than you think.

Unforgiveness keeps us chained to the person who hurt us. Forgiveness is the key that unlocks the chain and sets us free.

*Note to churches, Bible study groups, and book clubs: Contact me for a discount price on bulk orders.

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BOOK DETAILS

Publisher: ACU Press / Leafwood Publishers
Publication Date: September 1, 2026
Pages: 240
ISBN-13: 9781684264520
Trim Size: 5.5 x 8.25 inches

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Endorsements

“A powerful and greatly needed exploration of forgiveness from every angle. With biblical clarity, compassionate insight, and seasoned wisdom, Debbie gently guides readers through the complex journey of letting go. A must-read for anyone serious about healing and freedom through biblical forgiveness.”

Dr. Evelyn Johnson-Taylor

Theology professor and author

“Big Hurt, Bigger God is a powerful exploration of the real cost of unforgiveness. Debbie provides a realistic approach to wise boundaries while drawing us closer to God in our pain. Seeking Him in the midst of hurt brings transformation!”

Amy C. Williams

Author of "Always Peachy"

“Believers know they need to forgive, but few know how to do it well. With a strong biblical foundation and real-life stories, Debbie provides healthy, practical guidance for facing painful relationships. A treasure trove of wisdom.”

Rich Miller

Author and Missionary

“Debbie masterfully applies God’s truth to life’s messy circumstances. She addresses the myths that keep us stuck and returns us again and again to God’s perspective. ‘If we seek the Lord in our pain, we experience transformation.’”

Dawn Wilson

Bible teacher and author

more praise!

“Profoundly moving and deeply rooted in Scripture, this book leads readers on a journey toward healing through the transformative power of genuine forgiveness.”

Lisa T. Grimes

Author

“In clear, Scripture-saturated language, Debbie shows how we can accomplish the seemingly impossible and find freedom in forgiveness.”

DiAnn Mills

Award-winning, best-selling author

“Without platitudes or quick fixes, Debbie walks beside you like a wise and gentle friend, showing that God’s love is greater than your deepest hurt.”

Rhonda Robinson

Focus on the Family

“Debbie’s step-by-step encouragement shows how to move from revenge-driven pain to victorious freedom. I wish I’d had this book when I was struggling to forgive.”

Jane Daly,

Author

“Each chapter clarifies what we face and leads us toward forgiveness, healing, and hope. A resource not to be missed.”

Pamela Ecrement

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor

“Biblically sound, investigative in its use of Scripture, and written with humor and a tender heart.”

Yvonne Ortega

Retired professional counselor

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